October 2024

October 2024

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October 2024

Dear friends,

As we prepare to celebrate our third anniversary as Illuminate Collective, we’re reflecting on the magic of the number three. Consider a few of these fun facts:

  • The number three is the only number equal to the sum of the previous numbers. For this and other reasons, the Greek philosopher Pythagoras considered three to be the perfect  number – a number of harmony and understanding.

  • The triangle is considered the most stable shape in construction and engineering.

  • All colors are derived from three primary colors.

  • The “rule of three” suggests that words and ideas expressed in groups of three are more memorable and resonant with people.

We’ve also experienced the magic of the number three in our ongoing partnership with Natalie Basham. Natalie has been a friend and colleague for more than a decade. Anyone who knows her has experienced her warmth, empathy and powerful insights about how we build community.  Over the past three years, Natalie has joined us at Illuminate Collective to coach leaders and teams in a range of contexts, and we have loved making an impact as a trio. We’ve featured Natalie in our Partner Spotlight, where you can read more about her insightful leadership and the coaching and facilitation we’ve done together over the past three years.

In our third year of Illuminate Collective, we’re excited to tap into the power of three as we:

  • Continue to collaborate with and learn from Natalie and other incredible colleagues.

  • Expand our offerings related to developing managers and building team culture.

  • Coach our amazing clients to lean into what is magical and true about their leadership.

Hopefully those last three ideas will be memorable and sticky! 😊

Join us!

Learning and Growing with the Enneagram

We were thrilled to partner with Cat McLaughlin of Rosemary Collaborative to lead a series of Enneagram workshops at The Lodge at Woodloch in August. We had inspiring conversations with our workshop participants about the Enneagram as a tool for building self awareness and understanding our opportunities for growth. We’ll be heading back to Woodloch on January 31st – February 2nd to lead another Enneagram workshop series. You can learn more here if you’d like to join us!

We’re excited to expand our Enneagram offering to introduce the Enneagram for Teams as a framework for building more cohesive, trusting and effective teams. We can provide both live and virtual sessions during team retreats that are designed for your context. Please reach out if you’d like to schedule an exploratory call to learn more.

Free “Discover Your Enneagram Type” Session

To celebrate our third year of partnership as Illuminate Collective, we’re offering a free “Discover Your Enneagram Type” session with our friend Cat from Rosemary Collaborative on November 8th at 12 PM EST.

In this sixty minute session, participants will learn foundational concepts of the Enneagram and engage in a brief assessment to discover their Enneagram type. We’re excited to share our appreciation for the Enneagram with you! Please register below by date to reserve a spot.  Spaces are limited.

Partner Spotlight

Natalie Basham

We’ve been partnering with our amazing friend Natalie Basham to provide facilitation, consulting and coaching services to a range of clients over the past three years. We’ve delivered trainings on building a values-aligned culture, engaging in productive conflict and coaching and developing your team as a manager. We’ve coached leaders on diversity, equity and inclusion and supported racial equity pilots within organizations. And we’ve deepened our connection as colleagues and friends who are constantly learning and also laughing a lot. 

In her work as the founder of N.O.V.A. Services (Not Only Vision, but Action), Natalie specializes in building the capacity of individuals and teams to lead sustainable change and engage in healthy conflict.  N.O.V.A. Services provides a variety of employee relations and workplace culture services such as third-party reviews, culture assessments, mediation, ombuds services, grievance investigations, conflict coaching and restorative dialogue. You can learn more about Natalie’s experience and offerings here.

Third Anniversary Speed Round with Marion & Miwa

Marion

Current Favorite Training or Design Topic:  Collaborative Learning Spaces for Managers

Quality You Appreciate in Miwa:  Her genuine, heart-felt approach to life, work and people!

Favorite Song for a Facilitation Playlist:  “Rise Up” by Andra Day

Miwa

Current Favorite Training or Design Topic: Foundational aspects of team culture (the “Culture Engine”) for start up organizations

Quality You Appreciate in Marion: Abundant enthusiasm (in both life and work!)

Favorite Song for a Facilitation Playlist: “Golden” by Jill Scott or “Lovely Day” by Bill Withers

Gratitude

As we celebrate three years of partnership, we’re grateful for the inspiring clients we collaborate with every day and the opportunity to do work that we truly love. We’re excited to lean into the magic of the number three with you this year!

Keep shining,

Marion and Miwa

June 2024

June 2024

Image credit: Morgan Harper Nichols

 

June 2024

Dear friends,

Every new season brings change, but summers can bring particularly poignant transitions for many of us (including Marion celebrating her youngest child’s high school graduation and Miwa preparing for a milestone birthday!). We recently joined a group of leaders to share what we’ve learned about leading change. As we reflected on our experiences supporting leaders and organizations in navigating change, we kept coming back to the same key themes:

  • Share the why so that stakeholders understand the purpose of the change
  • Engage in ongoing, transparent communication, being clear about what you know, acknowledging what you don’t know, and naming next steps
  • Lean into relationship and hold space for people to process, understanding that every change brings both loss and opportunity

As the summer begins, we’re reminded that navigating personal change requires the same intention. In what ways are we changing/is our context changing? Why is this change important to us? How do we honor and acknowledge what is lost while also celebrating what will be? How do we navigate (or even embrace!) the messy middle and what we don’t yet know? And how do we lean into relationship and acknowledge the impact of the change on others and ourselves?

 Whatever transitions you’re moving through this summer, we hope you can make space to ground in purpose, accept what is uncertain, move forward with care and celebrate with sparkle whenever possible.

Join us!

Come see us at The Lodge At Woodloch!

Nine years ago before the huge transition of starting her own business, Marion went to The Lodge at Woodloch to restore and reflect. During this visit, she envisioned teaching at Woodloch one day, and now, together, we have made it a reality!

 The two of us and our friend Cat McLaughlin of Rosemary Collaborative are thrilled to be facilitating three Enneagram workshops at The Lodge at Woodloch this August 9th – 11th. We’ve each experienced the Enneagram as a powerful framework for growth and transformation, and received our Enneagram Applications Certification through Enneagram Georgia last year. We have already been building this framework into our coaching and consulting offerings. You can learn more about our Woodloch workshop series here and reach out to us if you’d like to learn more about our Enneagram work.

Midsummer Collective Conversation

We’d love to take another Midsummer’s Pause with you! Please join us for our next Collective Conversation on Wednesday, July 10th from 11 AM – 12 PM ET. We’ll be at the halfway point of both the summer season and the calendar year. So we’ll take a collective pause to reflect on where we are and what we’re loving this summer and to set intentions, whether for the rest of the season or the rest of the year.

Please grab a cup of coffee or tea (iced!) and join us for this informal conversation. We hope to see you there.

Partner Spotlight

Melea Nalli

We’re excited to feature our friend and mentor Melea Nalli, partner consultant and leadership coach at Conscious Revolution. Melea and the Conscious Revolution team partner with visionary leaders across all sectors to co-create a world where thriving is accessible to all. Together, they are advocating for a new paradigm of conscious leadership that upholds human potential, nurtures interconnectedness, and sparks transformative change.

Conscious Revolution offers holistic support that considers how our bodies, hearts and minds are connected to the ways in which we lead ourselves, others and our systems. They provide organizational consulting support, leadership development programs, Soul-Full HR support, executive coaching and immersive experiences for leaders to resource themselves and to build community with each other.

Recommended Resources

We’re excited to dive into these books and resources this summer as we navigate transitions and move through change.

Holding Change: The Way of Emergent Strategy Facilitation and Mediation by adrienne maree brown: Wisdom from the amazing adrienne maree brown on holding space for each other.

Sandwich by Catherine Newman: A novel about the messiness and beauty of midlife.

Astrological Snapshot from Heidi Rose Robbins: In addition to full readings, Heidi offers “Transit Snapshots” where you can gain awareness to support key transitions in your life.

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg: Nonviolent Communication provides tools to help us deepen our understanding of our own and other’s needs and effectively communicate them- which is especially important during times of transition.

Gratitude

As we welcome another summer, we are deeply thankful for the teachers, mentors and school leaders in our lives, for our friends, family and colleagues who help ground us during times of transitions, and for our incredible community that radiates light all year long.

Keep shining,

Marion and Miwa

December 2023

December 2023

Photo by Mike Labrum on Unsplash

December 2023

Dear friends,

This week marks the winter solstice, the longest night of the year and also the signal that the days will be ever so slightly longer for the rest of the season. It’s another reminder of the both/and – that the stars can shine the brightest on the coldest, longest night.

As we reflect on our experiences and the experiences of our clients this year, we consistently return to our ability as humans to live in the both/and. We can be distraught by the violence we see shattering communities and moved to action by helpers and healers. We can feel stuck and still reach out. We can take time to talk with our teammates, family, and friends about what brought us joy this year while also acknowledging what was heavy and difficult.

We hope that this season of darkness and light brings all of us opportunities for connection and an appreciation of stars that shine bright.

Join us!

Discover Your Three Word Mantra

Friday, January 19th from 12-1 ET

We are excited to announce that we’re bringing back a favorite session, Discover Your Three Word Mantra, Friday, January 19th at 12 PM EST.

Whether you’ve joined us before to create your mantra or this will be your first time, the new year provides a wonderful opportunity to set your intentions in community with others.  During this free workshop, we will walk you through guided reflection to create your own three word mantra. We’ve found our own mantras to be powerful tools for centering ourselves and shifting our ways of being, and our clients have too!

Register below to reserve your spot, and invite a friend or colleague to join you!

Connect with Us!

We’d love to hear what’s new with you and your work.  Please grab 30 minutes in the new year with Miwa or Marion for a coffee/tea chat.

Photo by Frank Leuderalbert on Unsplash

Partner Spotlight

Alicia Reyna

This month we’re highlighting Alicia Reyna, a long-time colleague and friend who has just launched her own practice as a strength based coach. We are excited to be partnering with Alicia currently on a coaching program with a community based network of early childhood education providers, and excited to share more about her work with you.

As the founder of Alicia Reyna Consulting LLC, Alicia empowers organizations, managers, and teams to identify their talents and use them as strengths to create meaningful impact in our world. Certified as a Gallup Strengths Coach, a Senior Human Resources Professional (SHRM-SCP), and Mediation for Social Justice, Alicia’s approach centers on helping teams appreciate and understand their differences and be able to use them as their greatest asset to increase productivity, engagement, and wellbeing in ways that create workplaces where adults learn, grow, and thrive. She offers CliftonStrengths team coaching, individual strengths coaching, strengths-based conflict resolution, and courses including: An Introduction to Your Strengths, Managing Others Using Your Strengths, and Leading Change Using Your Strengths. You can reach her at [email protected] and on LinkedinClick here for testimonials and more information about her business.

A Few of Our Favorite Reads & Listens in 2023!

Marion’s Favorite Memoir

My Broken Language by Quiara Alegria Hudes. Hudes, who co-wrote “In the Heights” with Lin Manual Miranda, invites us into her family as she shares her journey growing up in her Puerto Rican neighborhood in Philadelphia. I laughed and cried through her lyrical storytelling and recommend you do this one on audio -Hudes herself narrates!

Miwa’s Favorite Fiction

Happiness Falls by Angie Kim I’m not usually a mystery fan, but I loved the voice of Mia, the biracial narrator in this novel, as she navigates issues of identity, language and loss with her family.

Favorite Podcast Episode

Relationships are What Rescued Me – Featuring Alli Myatt on How to Make Love with laura brewer. We loved listening to two incredibly thoughtful colleagues in conversation with each other.  Their perspectives on what the universe wants for us, the impact of vulnerability, and releasing the need to control resonated deeply with us.

Another Favorite Pod Episode!

Three Skills for Staying Calm, Sane and Open in a Chaotic World – with Krista Tippett on 10% Happier.  We appreciated this episode on one of our favorite weekly go-tos for podcasts – Krista helps us grapple with questions of meaning when there is so much to be troubled by in the world.

Miwa’s Holiday Playlists

Miwa adds to her Christmas and Hanukkah playlists every year. She’s a huge fan of Whitney Houston’s “Do You Hear What I Hear,”  Wham’s “Last Christmas,” and Marc Cohn’s version of “Ma’oz Tzur.” Listen to her Christmas faves here and her top Hanukkah tunes here.

Favorite New Music Release

Shameless proud mom plug:  Marion’s teen son released his second album on Spotify this fall – he wrote all the songs, played each part, and then mixed them together – all in the attic before he left for college.

Gratitude

Thank you for being part of our Illuminate community.  We wish you a wonderful, restful winter break connecting with the people you love, and we look forward to connecting with you in the new year.

Keep shining,

Marion and Miwa

November 2023

November 2023

Image Credit: Image Credit: Photo by Oliver on Adobe Stock

November 2023

Celebrating 2 years of partnership

We hope that in the midst of this challenging season all of us are finding time to connect with loved ones and take care of each other. In moments of heartbreak and overwhelm, we lean into connection. And we lean into connection in moments of joy as well.

Last month marked the second anniversary of  Illuminate Collective. We started our work together two Octobers ago believing in abundance. We trusted that sharing the work would create space for more of what we loved – a feeling of team, partnerships with inspiring clients, collaboration with incredible colleagues, and time outside of work to sustain our whole lives. We’re grateful to have made this vision a reality together.

In our third year, we’re excited to continue sharing the work and creating space within our collective. We’re deepening our collaboration with our phenomenal friend and trusted partner Natalie Basham of N.O.V.A. Services LLC. And we’re welcoming the amazing Deborah Raji of Deborah Raji, LLC, who brings operations expertise and a creative lens (check out her photography!) to her part-time work with us. 

We’re grateful for the opportunity to keep learning, growing and celebrating in community with you.

Join us!

Collective Conversation – “Favorite Things” Resource Share

Please join us for our next Collective Conversation on Tuesday, November 14th from 11 AM – 12 PM ET.  

We are excited to host our first “Resource Share” conversation – come with your favorite/recommended resources to share with each other and leave with a great list to dig into. Think books, podcasts, rituals, health and wellness practices, or whatever is resonant for you right now.

Please grab a cup of coffee or tea and join us for this informal conversation. If you are a regular to our conversations, we hope to see you again and invite you to bring a friend! If you are new to us, we look forward to seeing you!

Partner Spotlight

Cat McLaughlin, LPC: Mindfulness Meditation Classes

We are excited to partner with our friend Cat, a Licensed Professional Counselor and Mindfulness Meditation Teacher, to offer an in-person Enneagram workshop in 2024 (stay tuned for announcement of the exciting in-person location!). In the meantime, we want to make you aware of her work and meditation offerings.

Cat practices psychotherapy & mindfulness meditation, joining people in sorting through and organizing their lives. Recognizing that people follow different paths to healing, Cat co-founded Spring Village Center for Therapy & Wellness, a holistic community of healers who blend Eastern and Western practices to help people care for their bodies and minds. In her work with individuals and groups, Cat teaches a stepwise and compassionate approach to meditation, and helps coach clients through feeling emotions in a safe, embodied way. Learn more about Cat and her practice at her website.

Client Spotlight

We have loved working with social impact agency Propper Daley, and are excited to shout them out for creating an amazing staff benefit. They enlisted us to design and facilitate a three-part coaching series for team members celebrating five years of service at the agency. Working with one of our incredible partner coaches at Illuminate Collective, the team member engages in a series of  exercises to reflect on their strengths, leadership and future goals. We celebrate Propper Daley’s commitment to investing in their people in such a meaningful way! 

Reading/Resource Recommendations

In honor of our second anniversary, we’d like to shout out two resources that we reference and recommend often in our work with our clients. 

The 2 X 2 Feedback Form

  • We’ve been using this simple, high impact resource for over two decades – first as team leaders and then as coaches and consultants. The 2 X 2 was first introduced to us by Jerry Hauser, the Founding CEO of the Management Center and current President of 2050 Advisors LLC. Our clients love it, and we do, too. While you’re checking out the 2 X 2, we recommend exploring The Management Center’s incredible Resource Library and Management Trainings.

The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters by Priya Parker

  • This book asks questions and shares guidance to help make whatever gathering you’re hosting or facilitating more meaningful and grounded in purpose.

Gratitude

We’re so grateful that you’re part of our Illuminate community. We look forward to many more celebrations to come.

Keep shining,

Marion and Miwa

June 2023

June 2023

Art by Anne Bentley

 

June 2023

Dear friends,

We love the month of June (our birthday month!) and all the ways it shouts “both/and.” Both/and because June is Gemini season, symbolized by twins given a Gemini’s duality and adaptability. Both/and because the season of summer officially begins, and we embrace longer days and shorter nights. Both/and because of bittersweet transitions as the school year ends and graduations are celebrated. Both/and because of bright sun and soaking rain. Both/and because even after the hardest days, we see fireflies bravely shining their light in the darkness and feel encouraged. 

As we begin the summer season, we are excited to celebrate Juneteenth, Pride, and the International Day of Purpose – see resources below.  We look forward to diving into new partnerships, continuing our learning, and taking time for restoration and reflection. And we are leaving ourselves open to the sun and the rain, because we need them both to grow. We wish you a summer of growth, rest, and continuing to lean into the both/and.

Join us!

Collective Conversations: Midsummer’s Pause

We’d love to take a Midsummer’s Pause with you! Please join us for our next Collective Conversation on Tuesday, July 18th from 11 AM – 12 PM ET.  We’ll be at the halfway point of both the summer season and the calendar year. So we’ll take a collective pause to reflect on where we are and what we’re loving this summer and to set intentions, whether for the rest of the season or the rest of the year.

Please grab a cup of coffee or tea (iced!) and join us for this informal conversation. We hope to see you there.

Partner Spotlight

Jovian Zayne, International Day of Purpose

We are always inspired by our colleague and friend, Jovian Zayne, founder of the International Day of Purpose, and invite you to join us in celebrating the 2023 International Day of Purpose® on Tuesday, June 20th!

Each year, The International Day of Purpose invites us to reflect on our sense of purpose and how we can be more intentional in how we live. This year’s theme “Gather, OnPurpose!” is a call to meaningfully connect with one another – a way for us to confront the epidemic of loneliness and mental health challenges posed by the pandemic.

Visit dayofpurpose.org to download resources from The OnPurpose Movement to curate your meaningful connections and be sure to share your experience by tagging @dayofpurpose and #dayofpurpose.

For more information reach out to [email protected] or visit dayofpurpose.org.

Client Spotlight

Heights Philadelphia

We had an amazing time partnering with Heights Philadelphia this winter and spring. Heights Philadelphia was created in December from the merger of Steppingstone Scholars and Philadelphia Futures. During this time of significant change, Heights Philadelphia was committed to supporting the growth and development of their leaders. 

We designed and facilitated a series of customized trainings for both new and seasoned managers to align on a management purpose and framework and to build skill in foundational management competencies. We loved working side by side with Heights Philadelphia leaders to help develop their new managers into thoughtful, effective people leaders. 

“This training series was engaging, informative, and illuminating. I loved the flow and pacing of the conversation as well as the opportunities for real world application.”
Participant in Heights Manager Training

If you’re seeking support to help grow and develop your managers, please reach out to discuss how we can partner with you!

June Reading Recommendations

Reflections on Juneteenth & Pride

We’re excited to dive into these books and resources this summer as we navigate transitions and move through change.

Our Summer Reading List

Management in a Changing World by Jakada Imani, Monna Wong, and Bex Ahuja

Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson

Inciting Joy by Ross Gay

Gratitude

In this season we’re thankful for all of the teachers, administrators, coaches and mentors who encourage, challenge, and inspire students every day. Your work is hugely important and deeply appreciated.

Keep shining,

Marion and Miwa